Imagine driving a 2 seated sport car flying on the road. 3 different persons need a ride from you.
1, Someone you like
2, a doctor who need to rush for to do an operation
3, a patient who need an operation
Which one you will choose?
If you take the one that you like. You will indirectly killing 2 persons life. But if you take the doctor, the patient not able to receive treatment and your "like" one will hate you. What to do?
Answer: Give up your car to the doctor and let him drive the patient to hospital together. And you can have all your own sweet time to spend with your "like" one.
Life first half:
Pursues successfully (make use of others strength to achieve success)
Life second half:
To pursue wisdom (apportions own success to others)
Life last second half:
To pursue value (leaves behind life value to descendant)
Serious Question here....
Before further Associate with your love one. Ask yourself
Any condition exchange when you like this person?
Are you escaping from something that bother your life?
Are you trying to change this person’s life?
If your answer is yes to any of the above 3 questions. You should leave your partner right now. Because he/she will live better without you around.